Or you’re a ‘hell yes!’ but something is still holding you back?
Yup, absolutely normal. There is that part of you, let’s call it your ‘higher self’ or ‘bigger mind’ or your ‘neocortex’ which has the ability to see what you need and what’s best for you. This part is going ‘hell yes!’
Then there might be another part of you that is going, ‘Whoa, no way, that sounds way too scary’ or ‘I can’t put myself first!’. It’s probably easier to run away right? Pretend like you didn’t actually just see a solution and know that it’s good for you? Maybe you want to fight with yourself and state all the reasons why getting a coach is a bad idea. Maybe you notice right now you have shortness of breath and you’ll end up feeling paralyzed and do nothing to make contact.
Yup, these are all VERY common, and you know what? Fair enough. Breathe, it’s OK.
These are called your Conditioned Tendencies located in your subconscious mind. These are behaviour patterns you most likely learned when you were young to keep yourself safe, loved, with a sense of belonging and dignity. We all do it and they have actually done an amazing job in keeping you safe at a time when you needed it. They may however no longer be serving you anymore as an adult. We will work with these in your coaching session. The question for you is;
Will you choose to let the subconscious control your actions and run your life?
How was that gone for you so far?
If you’re also thinking that you couldn’t possibly spend this much money on yourself, guess what? That’s also a Conditioned Tendency. Women in particular can find it hard to put themselves first. Now is the time. If not, then when? The benefits you and others will receive will most definitely be worth the financial investment.
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